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Wednesday, December 3, 2014

It's been four years since Mum has passed.

It’s been four years since Mum has passed away
Four years, where has that time gone?
I still remember the events surrounding the announcement,
Hurry, Mum is dying and it’s only a matter of time.

Anyway, I was hurrying as fast as urban traffic would allow,
Worst, was I had to use a cab, because the Family members couldn't get me.
The cabbie, was jovial and asked where I wanted to go, I said can you step on it,
I need to get there as fast as possible because my mother-in-law is passing away.

Sure, as fast as I can and I will pray for her to wait until you get there,
Thanks, that’s kind of you, he was a religious man, and what’s your Family like?
So, we discuss the details about each other, our  Family and lives,
And, how we manage to cope, with the pressures as we age.

I was struggling with my own issue and that was chemo and radiation,
This was a distraction that was painful and helpful. I was thinking about someone else.
There is no use worrying about your selves when ours will need the support to cope.
Finally, we arrive and I take a big breath and face another trial in the life cycle.

Four years, times go by too fast and we are now remembering a special person,
That has left, one life and started, a timeless other, with Her Heavenly Family.
We think this way to comfort ourselves and explain to the young children,
Why GG has died and where is going, it’s tough as the questions asked, are simple, yet not.



Sunday, October 19, 2014

The Lost Chair

The Chair
A story about sections of wood assembled into a chair and its history as far as the imagination can form it. It’s a chair like any other in its heyday, but now that it’s over 60 years in age, does it make it special?

 Yes, because of the unique owners of this chair and it was part of a living room set with five other chairs, a table and china cabinet and a hutch, made by the National Table Company of Owen Sound, founded in 1892 with factories at 1800 block of 3rd Ave East.

This chair was part of the newly married Alton Family from at least 1953, when Margaret Ellen Edwards and Wilmer George Alton were wedded and started in their home in London, Ontario. I want to trace a bit of the history of and the possible adventures this chair has had.

The present:  October-12-14.

So, just a mere few weeks ago Len  Mary’s brother whom lives with his wife Jackie in the country side of Echo Bay, found this chair in the basement of their home and asked thru e-mails if anyone wanted this chair. He sent a few pictures along with it and to tell the truth it did look the worst for wear, but considering what this chair has been thru, it’s a survivor and it was going to be liberated.

In a word this chair looked like it’s seen some truly remarkable times and we sent an e-mail, actually two of them, please let me have that chair. And, it’s at our home and awaiting the seat to be re upholstered and reattached. Len and Jackie delivered to us on their way to Collingwood for Thanksgiving.

 After a full examination, it was definite to leave it its natural state of elegance and to clean it of the early accumulated dust and residue and just refinish it with a Stain-in-varnish product called Circa 1860. And all the scratches and other symbols picked in its life to be left there to show its journey so far.

  Like the Great Sphinx, it has stood the test of time. . At one time or other this chair has seated each of the Family members and countless guests in its lifetime. I imagine that there were many meals shared here, the card games, possibly home work was done here, the newspaper was read, the decisions to affect their lives were debated at this table and they sat in this chair. The chair, what stories you could tell.

The past:

 The basic wood was harvested from the Grey-Bruce area and provided work for the residents as other factories also required wood for their products. The National Table had many different varieties of furniture and supplied the entire country in some cases with their goods.


Trivia: The National Table Company was founded by William Hamilton Merritt Sr. around 1898, when he purchased 325 feet of waterfront property from J.H. McLauchlan.

 The National Table Company factory was located on the east side of the harbor, just north of Boyd’s Wharf, to south of the factory were McQuay’s Tannery and Keenan’s Wooden  Baskets.

The National Table Company made quality bedroom and dining room furniture.  The company began operations with 25 employees.  They closed for a brief period of time during the Depression, however, they resumed full operations in 1938 with 64 employees and by 1948 they had 80 employees.

William Hamilton Merritt Sr. passed away in 1921 and his son, William Hamilton Merritt, began to run the company.

In 1948 there was still a high demand for quality furniture but the lumber needed to make the furniture was becoming scarce.  In 1960 The National Table Company was sold to William P. Hewitt and James Ranking Brown of Hamilton who planned to reopen the factory which had been operating with reduced staff and to eventually expand the business.

In 1982, the National Table, McQuay and Keenan factories were demolished to clear the site for the Harry Lumley Bayshore Community Centre.

Source: Renewal of a Canadian Port: Owen Sound on the Georgian Bay, 1993, by Melba Croft.

Was it a Gift?

We assume, this was a gift to the newly wedded couple and the furniture set begins to give service to the Family. The table had a leaf or two depending on the model with two arm chairs and four regular chairs. Usually a china cabinet and hutch were included in the package.

The table was on a large pedestal base and it was big enough that you couldn't topple it when you leaned on any portion of the surface. Usually, the table had a table cloth with a vase of flowers when not in use and it made a handsome addition to the home.

The table and chairs were in the dining room and all the meals were eaten here when the Family was at home. The furniture was moved numerous times over its life time as homes bought and sold and this set was moved to the new location and would pick up new scratches and marks along the way.

Judging by the repairs done to this chair, it was cracked near the top of it and repaired, albeit in a poor fashion.

 Later, when the Family dynamics changed the set was given to Mary, as the folks moved on to different phases in their lives.Somehow, over time the set became separated from the original owners and this one chair was in the care of Len and Jackie and this chair was not included when the dining room was sold.

  Well, its function was a spare chair, when needed when extra people showed up.

Different effects on this chair:

There is paint splatter, used as a step ladder, a saw horse  and many marks for its added appeal. Over time the seat material began to dry and gets a rip and it unravels from the frame and is need of repair / replacement.


This type of label was usually found attached to the furniture




The most common offense, the chair is no longer needed and it is stored away and forgotten about or it gets thrown out or destroyed, furniture karma. Well, hopefully after the renewal this chair will continue to give service.





Monday, June 16, 2014

I saw your name

Preamble: I was researching a name on the Findagrave.com website and by chance I wrote this name and was amazed at what I read and this prompted to write this obituary.



I read your obituary ,When I saw your name and your age of death,

I felt very sadden, Its not fair, to leave us soon.

I, couldn’t imagine the thought. Its enough when you lose your parents,

but a child, its awful. Yes, I know you were a young adult, but, in the tree of life, a child.



I never met you, nor did I know you were on this earth,

until yesterday, I read your obituary, I was searching for something else.

and your name came to my mind and within a few seconds, I was reading about you,

I read your obit, read it again and I reminisced the names of your Family.



I knew your Grandparents and aunt when I was younger and we had no idea what the world had in store for us. Wide eyed and naïve we were and just went on blind faith, And at once it seems were thinking what was in store for them, what would the future bring. Time moves quickly and fate does what it does. Little, did we know that a mutant cell was going to claim your life so soon.



I read your obituary ,When I saw your name and your age of death, I felt very sadden, Its not fair, to leave us soon. That thought will never leave me and in a moment when I want to just rest, your name will come to me and I think about what could have been for you. Its not fair, is there any justice left.? Tears, easily flow and I weep, for you. Life, isn’t fair.!!.



After a space in time, I begin to slow down and tell myself you are in a better place and yes, the pain of your death is still fresh in many minds, I am sure their thoughts are the same as this grieving process continues. The episodes will occur less often and we will still cry for your memory and how much we miss you and begin again to restore our selves.


To your Family and friends that knew you and loved you, raised, praised and cared for you, From the moment of your birth, to the moment of last breath, I offer my sincere condolences and forever in time, your memory will remain. Rest in peace.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

A Tribute to Margaret Ellen Edwards-Alton-Boyle


http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GScid=2300319&GRid=62561800&
Just a young women of 18 yrs ready for the world and not knowing what is in store for Her.

I am still here.

Just a short note to let you all know I am still in operation.A little older but still willing and able to cut the mustard when it appears. The Grandkids are still challenging my intellect and they are winning. Everday they prove to me I am not as smart as them.

So,what if I built regions of the internet and now could care less about an ipad or ipod or ipip etc,its not the same as a pencil and paper now is it. I love the spell checker,its a bonus when it works. I can manage to confuse that critter everyday,so whom is smarter,the man or the machine.?

So,I am smart,but with 4 people trying to prove you wrong,well its a game. However,that said,when the shithitsthefan,who can you call.?? Yes,its me,the old man,poppa,pops,gramps.grumpy,grandpus,old geezer,and hey you.!!.

Been there and done that and making it work is my motto, along with,get the hell outta the way and why don't you go to your mamma's place.!! or don't I hear your mamma calling,you,"oh,fuck-head dinner's ready".?.

*sorry,I forgot to put in a disclaimer that certain language may and will be used to only make certain its not mis-understood, understand?. Confusing,??,wait until you get here,all that doubt will be removed,trust me.!!.

Ok,so,if I made some sense,yahoo and ifin I didn't,I don't care, because judging by the look on your face,you are part of the problem and there is no solution for you other than to donate yourself to a museum.!!

Amen.